<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2626106431522330012</id><updated>2011-04-21T11:35:13.170-07:00</updated><title type='text'>shan phei</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://shanphei.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2626106431522330012/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shanphei.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>shan phei</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16142968880815484979</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2626106431522330012.post-3857292942131372020</id><published>2008-10-18T01:11:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-18T01:16:26.010-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Carnegie Success Connection Tip of the Week</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);"&gt;Don't get so busy or live so fast that we can't listen to the music of the meadow or the symphony that glorifies the forest.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;table style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="372"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td align="right"&gt;&lt;em&gt;- Dale Carnegie&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Dear shan phei:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;p&gt;Embrace things that drive you to achieve. Start recognizing the things that fail to sponsor your success, and start the empowering process of letting those things go. Consider the following techniques to minimize and eliminate unnecessary distress:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Keep busy&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Don't fuss about trifles&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Use the law of averages to outlaw your worries&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Cooperate with the inevitable&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Decide just how much anxiety a thing may be worth and refuse to give it more&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Don't worry about the past&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);"&gt;                                                                                       Source:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;                                                                                       The Dale Carnegie Course&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;sup&gt;®&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;br /&gt;                                                                                       12 weeks, 3.5 hours one evening per week&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2626106431522330012-3857292942131372020?l=shanphei.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://shanphei.blogspot.com/feeds/3857292942131372020/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2626106431522330012&amp;postID=3857292942131372020' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2626106431522330012/posts/default/3857292942131372020'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2626106431522330012/posts/default/3857292942131372020'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shanphei.blogspot.com/2008/10/carnegie-success-connection-tip-of-week.html' title='Carnegie Success Connection Tip of the Week'/><author><name>shan phei</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16142968880815484979</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2626106431522330012.post-4384061468205480252</id><published>2008-10-17T07:29:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-17T07:46:16.556-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Quotations by Dale Carnegie</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 0, 0);" class="body"&gt;Flaming enthusiasm, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 0, 0);" class="body"&gt;backed up by horse sense and persistence, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="body"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 0, 0);"&gt;is the quality that most frequently makes for success.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);" class="body"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;If you believe in what you are doing,&lt;br /&gt;then let nothing hold you up in your work.&lt;br /&gt;Much of the best work of the world has been done against seeming impossibilities.&lt;br /&gt;The thing is to get the work done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 102);" class="body"&gt;If you want to be enthusiastic,&lt;br /&gt;act enthusiastic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;" class="body"&gt;If you want to conquer fear,&lt;br /&gt;don't sit home and think about it.&lt;br /&gt;Go out and get busy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0); font-weight: bold;" class="body"&gt;If you want to gather honey,&lt;br /&gt;don't kick over the beehive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;" class="body"&gt;Inaction breeds doubt and fear.&lt;br /&gt;Action breeds confidence and courage.&lt;br /&gt;If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it.&lt;br /&gt;Go out and get busy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 255, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;&lt;span class="body"&gt;Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;" class="body"&gt;Remember happiness doesn't depend upon who you are or what you have;&lt;br /&gt; it depends solely on what you think.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:180%;" &gt;&lt;span class="body"&gt;Success is getting what you want.&lt;br /&gt;Happiness is wanting what you get.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 255, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;&lt;span class="body"&gt;You never achieve success unless you like what you are doing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 0);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;" class="body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="text3"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;If you can't sleep, then get up and do something instead of lying there and worrying. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;It's the worry that gets you, not the loss of sleep.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span class="body"&gt;You can conquer almost any fear if you will only make up your mind to do so.&lt;br /&gt; For remember, fear doesn't exist anywhere except in the mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;" class="body"&gt;We all have possibilities we don't know about.&lt;br /&gt; We can do things we don't even dream we can do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 0);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;" class="body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Take a chance! All life is a chance.&lt;br /&gt; The man who goes farthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 0);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;" class="body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 255, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;&lt;span class="body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;    &lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0); font-weight: bold;font-size:180%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 255, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;&lt;span class="body"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2626106431522330012-4384061468205480252?l=shanphei.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://shanphei.blogspot.com/feeds/4384061468205480252/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2626106431522330012&amp;postID=4384061468205480252' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2626106431522330012/posts/default/4384061468205480252'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2626106431522330012/posts/default/4384061468205480252'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shanphei.blogspot.com/2008/10/quotations-by-dale-carnegie.html' title='Quotations by Dale Carnegie'/><author><name>shan phei</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16142968880815484979</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
